Upcoming Wisdom tooth making my upper jaw soar how can i relieve the pain?

3 of my wisdom teeth have already broke threw my gum, now the fourth is coming and it is making my upper jaw soar at least i believe it is my wisdom tooth? I am not getting them pulled as I dont believe a human should get them pulled! mabe some day we will need them? and plus it ******* hurts getting them pulled and yes i am a baby about :P but yea what should i do to relieve this minor pain? it doest hurt but it is soar like a bruise