Do I actually like her?

I'm a feminine who loves other feminine s. So I can understand what you see in her. For a long time I tried to tell myself that I was bi, and I believed it. Until I decided to drop any pretenses and actually LOOK at the person, regardless of their appearance/gender. Thats when I found that I like GIRLY GIRLS. You should do the same. You have built up this image of yourself, maybe you are scared to like OBVIOUS girls because you aren't completely comfortable with yourself yet. Just forget how you perceive yourself and then you'll find out who you are attracted too. Look on the internet at pictures of beautiful women, try and point out what is attractive about them. Now look at a picture of a butch girl, do the same thing. Finally, look at the picture of an attractive guy and point out his good points. Imagine yourself with them individually. I guess that'll help you "let go". Finally imagine yourself with this girl, does it appeal to you? Yes? Kiss her!!